LDR
LDRit's really hard.
it's had been 4 months now.... and i am not handling it very well.
depressions which i had never felt sink in like water that runs down a stream... unconciously.
thought i can handle long distance relationships very well last time, when i was still single and free and ya,.. naive. when it comes to relationships, women's hearts are thrown all the way out to the other end of the world, and sometimes we can find it back and sometimes we lose it.
had been throwing bad tempers so often that i am quite embarassed already. apologising after the fit and then fall into it again. a form of reincarnation i think, a cycle that dun ends.
i had been telling myself to control myself. and i think i am improving but jus, maybe i need to double up my pace.
my cousin once said men are like caterpillars... ya, jus caterpillars, it doesnt include the butterfly stage which evolves after that. jus plain simple green caterpillars. why? becos guys think single mindedly.
guys out there, it's a compliment! serious.
think again, why do your girlfrens get into their twin sister by the name of temper so so often? it's because we(i am a woman too) think too complicatedly. we tend to think deep, so deep sometimes which the abyss doesnt even exist!and then when the dark clouds pass away, we realised red-cheekedly that oops, it's all jus my imagination. then text message our darlings and dears and honey and whatever u call them, that we are so sorry.
BUT! guys there! if there is any reading my entry, dun think u can get away with it ok. both parties have to put in effort to try and keep the r/s peaceful and blissful.
i am not trying to change the caterpillars we face, but trust that caterpillars have memory and ya, remember that your gf is complicated and try not to make her so complicated. but dun keep telling her to be simple, cos she wun understand that too, like caterpillars cant understand women's mind. ya?
so....
what i want to say is.... men and women are really different. though we love them, we are still different. jus that we have to find a balance point between the difference and ya, we will all be blessed.
say i am idealistic, but i dun want to believe that a couple should end up breaking jus becos they have different character. No difference can upset a relationship if love is strong enough to hold both on. and love have to be nurtured and give time to bloom.
oopss.... i thought i want to talk about LDR here, but haha... diverted.
back.
LDR are hard. and many feelings that doesnt exist suddenly appear right in the face, and they seem so real. but bear in mind, these are jus imaginations. remember, people are blessed with imaginations, but sometimes we put them into the wrong use. so... rememeber.. stay clear and alert. and think about the happy moments both of u have when u are together.
for me, squabbles dun even exist between when we were together, but once we are separated by the miles of sea and land, i get angry over simple things. which is ok, i admit, no good at all.
fortunately... i only have 1 more sem to bear. and i am going home for 2 months soon, 30 days from now, so i am really happy and looking forward. ok, i want to promise myself not to be overly sensitive. i guess that cause stress on my bf too, and i dun want him to be moody too.
cos he is my happy icon:)
so, ya... LDR, hard but wish all couples blissful.
posted by simplecatalyst @ Monday, December 18, 2006
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